Hello,

I (30M) am having difficulties with my gf (30F). I recently caught her texting an ex for comfort and she lied about it, which opened the floodgates. For about 4 months now, she's been having psychological problems (extreme dissociative events), which were hard to get her through to where she was acting like her normal self, which also strained our relationship.

Once i caught her, she told me she did the same thing when our relationship first began. And then informed me of all the problems she sees in our relationship, which have apparently been issues for years. I do get frustrated easily, and she has a difficult time actually saying what she means.

She's said that she doesn't know if trying to fix our relationship will change anything. Today she told me she thinks there's a 50/50 chance our relationship can be fixed and improved. I told her that i'm not sure 50/50 is enough for me.

Thoughts/comments/suggestions/advice please?