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Need help with a friend after break up
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So my friend dated this girl for about 6 months about a year ago. Broke up around 7 months ago. For the past 7 months he hasnā€™t been able to move on. He keeps talking about how he loves her, how he NEEDS a girlfriend and how sad and pointless everything is (he has so depressive episodes now and again that donā€™t help). And he doesnā€™t think heā€™ll ever love anyone the way he loves her.

He still talks to her but itā€™s always seemed to be a toxic relationship to me, even now (they agreed to be friends). Every now and then sheā€™ll say something like ā€œMy friends donā€™t want me to talk to you.ā€ Then sheā€™ll text him 3 days later. And he constantly checks up on her cause he is worried.

Anyway Iā€™m going on a tangent. TLDR; Friend canā€™t get over a break up that happened months ago, continues to stay in contact with said person, keeps saying they NEED a girlfriend, and thinks that he will never love another person because how much he loves her.

Anyone got any advice I can give him? Ways I can help? I feel bad for him, and Iā€™m kinda getting annoyed of him dropping emotions on me.

Context: 18Yr male. Remote area. Lack of transport.

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