My girlfriend and i have been dating for over a year now, and i’ve been super happy during this relationship. she was my crush throughout all of high school and i genuinely am in love with her, going to the extent of giving her a promise ring.

About a month ago, i noticed my girlfriend was ignoring me and never wanted to go out anywhere, i invited her for dinner and breakfast and ice cream and anything you could think of and she would just say, “no” and that’s it. no reason why or anything. so i decided to talk to her about it. she then told me i am a lot to deal with and that she gets super exhausted when i’m around her, she tells me that she can’t give me any romantic or friendly attention, because she wants to try and move past her trauma and depression.

it’s been about a month now and i’m really fucking lonely. i text her good morning and good night frequently with no response what so ever. what got to me heavily is when my father pushed my mother and physically assaulted her and i had to get him off of her, i felt awful, and needed someone for help, knowing that my parents were going to get a divorce. i called her three times and texted her telling her i needed her. i was ignored and i don’t know if i’m in the wrong for not giving her the space she needs in order to get through what she’s going through. there’s so much more to this but i’m exhausted writing all of it down.... i just need someone’s advice and feel free to ask me anything in the pms