This all starts 7 years ago we met at work and traded flirty banter there's 5 years between us but got on great, we saw each other out of work she would come to my place no matter the hour was always on the end of the phone for a chat. We never got together but slept with each other. Once she left work we stayed in touch but as life does slowly drifted apart however I never forgot about her , infact I fell for her and hard. It crushed me how we drifted apart and I never got over her. I am in a long term relationship now and have been for the past 4 years but still think about her daily and it gets me real down. I haven't told this to anyone so my friends don't know how I actually feel. Now the thing that confuses me is that she has recently been exploring her sexuality and apparently coming to the realisation she is straight due to wanting to settle down and be with a manly man and happened to reference my name in that statement according to close sources to both myself and her ex gf. But every time I initiate a conversation with her I get a few replies then get ghosted or no reply at all. My question to you all are we hung up on each other or do you think we could possibly both be in love with each other but afraid to admit it incase we blow what we used to once have?