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I(22m) need help figuring out what to do when the girl (20) who I've been talking with for about a month stops even opening snaps from me.
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Little bit of backstory so we met through mutual friends online she lives in a different country for me so it form of communication and attention is through snapchat. We talked pretty much every day for a month then starting a couple days ago communication started to slow down a little bit from her, I get it if I gave nothing else to do I respond almost immediately so I'm impatient. Shed respond maybe 30 minutes later atleast unless she was really busy then maybe an hour.

Then yesterday she would leave me on read for hours at a time even though responding earlier in the day as normal. Then later that night I had a slight anxiety attack thinking I did something wrong she assured me she was just talking with a friend and that she still cared about me. Went to sleep happy then this morning I sent her a good morning text which I do sometimes. Normally she'll send something back but today nothing. Then later thinking I just didn't give her anything to respond to sent her a meme thinking if get the usual laughing emoji back but not even opened. For 5 hours, I then sent her a message letting her know I know she is probably busy but I wanted to talk with her. Which she has yet to open as well.

So was wondering if I should let it be as she went back to her home country and wants to focus on people there, or keep trying to get a response back. I'm honestly kind of lost here any help is going to. Be appreciated.

UPDATE: She ended up sending me a message and everything is fine. Need to work on this for the future though for sure.

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