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Me (38M) Her (36F) We met about 2 years ago, we started off as roommates, I had just gotten a divorce and she had just moved to the area. We started off slow went on a date to "get to know eachother as roommates" once we got back home we drank and talked and had crazy sex all over the house. Fast forward 3 months and we are with each other all the time. I started to notice that she had a drinking problem. Her problem got worse but I fell deeper in love with her. I wanted her to get better so she went to rehab. 2 stints in rehab did not stop her from drinking. She countuined to drink and hide it. It was around this point that I felt she would be better as a wife, so we got married. I put her on my insurance and hoped that she would do the right thing. Well it just got worse, since i didnt want her drinking in the house she would leave for days at a time, and sleep with anyone she could. She cheated on me at least 5 times that I know of, but always while under the infulance of booze. She countined down the road of addiction. At this point she started smoking crack and meth. I told her I didnt want that in my home and that it was over for us unless she got help. Well she didnt, the meth use got worse. I kicked her out of the house and filed for divorce. She had no place to live and was living with random people. still drinking and using. Fast forward to today, She hasnt drank since 10/23/20 but I dont know that for certain. She hasnt also tells me she hasnt used since then. I guess my question is do I countuine to forgive her or do I try to move on. Shes a great person when shes sober. I do love her but I cant watch her destroy her life. It feels like there is no hope but I want her to get better. I try to focus on my life but have a hard time doing so. I found out that she has always had a problem with crack and booze. When do you start to forgive ? When do you forget?

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