Ok so I(F22) have been seeing this man(M25) for about 2 months. I wasn’t that into him st the end because we were very different from one another. I always get tested after I have sex with someone and I always use protection.

I got tested a month ago and my tests cane back negative. This weekend, the guy I was seeing announced that he has chlamydia and suggested I gave it to him. I assured him that I did not and got tested again; negative. I’ve now told him i’d rather we stopped talking and move on.

He doesn’t understand why I am being like this but I’m not comfortable being with someone as careless as him. I’m a bit disgusted and I know I shouldn’t because STDs happen. But I can’t seem to be attracted to him anymore.