I’ve been with my GF on and off for the last 4 years, ( look at previous posts on details). I have stage 3 liver Cancer and started IV Chemo this month. She decides it’s best not to see each other because I’ll be immunocompromised. Which I understand, and am grateful for, however she’s insistent on building herself up and improving herself while I’m away, and I feel childish wanting more of her attention. I mean I’m undergoing treatment that makes me feel physically and mentally like crap, and I want her there for me, but she’s focused on herself. I just want phone calls or texts, or even a “ how are you feeling”. My friends and family have been very assuring and comforting, but the one person I would expect to be there for me, decided that this is a good time for self improvement. Am I being too childish about this? I’m not expecting her to come over and pamper me, I just want to vent about my experience to her, and for her to be there in the way I want her to be ( which I have brought up to her before I started treatment, and she replied with her doing self improvement). Am I in the right? Am I in the wrong? Any insight or experience would be appreciated

TYFYT