So, for starters, I [24F] am not upset at the mere fact that he [27M] was watching porn. I watch porn, you probably watch porn. It can be healthy to get some release sometimes.

The hard feelings come from the fact that we haven’t been having much sex lately. I acknowledge that stress has a lot to do with this. BUT to be honest I’m a little jealous that it’s so easy for him to always get off yet difficult for me to get off.

I’m on BC and have a low sex drive and I rarely initiate sex because it’s frustrating that I hardly get off WHEN we do have sex.

We otherwise communicate and listen to one another well, in my opinion. Just sexual tension.

Walking in on him “rub one out” made me feel ¿inadequate? I’m worried that the lack of sex perhaps isn’t conducive of a healthy, wholesome relationship. Is that logical? Is sex a major key in a relationship??