My boyfriend and I are both 20, been dating for 3 years now.

We just went camping last weekend. It was the two of us, his parents, and some of his friends. It was the second night of camping. Four of us slept in a camper (his parents in one section and my bf and I in the other section) and his four friends slept in their tents. I had a hard time sleeping the previous night so I took an over the counter melatonin gummy provided by his mom. Making this clear right now; the only person that’s aware of me taking the melatonin is his mom. No one else.

It definitely knocked me out. I woke up the next morning well rested but I also felt very wet and warm in my vaginal area. Didn’t think much of it, figured it was just discharge or something. My bf then made a comment saying, “Looks like you had fun last night.” I was confused. He went on to say, “Remember last night? You were so wet.” I explained to him that I was asleep the entire night and had no genuine idea on what he was going on about to which he casually admitted that he “just rubbed your clit and fingered you a bit last night. Pretty sure you even came. Did you really sleep through all that because your body sure didn’t. You were twitching and squirming nearly the whole time.” I was genuinely unaware of what he did. I don’t remember feeling him touch me or feeling aroused through the night.

I can’t help but feel off about the whole thing. Part of me wants to say that there’s no harm done, so no harm, no foul, right? But at the same time, it just doesn’t feel right.