I love this girl to death, but the fighting is unbelievable. She will get mad at my tone or the way I say things even when I’m being 100% genuine. I am not perfect by any means, I get fed up quickly nowadays because I feel like even though we are only 3 years apart, she’s much less mature. I was the only child and she was the youngest of 4 and very much acts that way. We both have good jobs but like I said, I currently have a home that I am on a rent to own contract with, and I don’t have too much longer, but that being said I have a good job and would lose it if I indeed did move, whereas she is a nurse, doesn’t like her current job and could easily get a job here. For whatever reason she is making it a point that if I want her to move back I have to ask her to marry me.... I am not comfortable doing that right now. Especially since I drove all the way to see her today JUST so we could have a dinner and hang out for a bit, 4 hours total then back home.... 2 hours in we get into an argument and I go home mad at each other, we still haven’t talked. That was hours ago and she’s likely asleep now and I can’t fall asleep. I hope this makes sense and I didn’t ramble too much, I love this girl but our relationship feels toxic. Any thoughts helps. Thank you.