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So as of almost two weeks ago one of my really close friends and her boyfriend broke up. Some back story real quick, I've always had a thing for her and I care about her in many ways an I even told her how I felt back in the day but she softly declined as she was getting with another guy. When she left her most recent boyfriend she decided to shoot me a text asking if I wanted to spend the night which is nothing unusual at all but she mentioned how she mite go out later and I'd have to convince her to stay with a winking face ";)". Since as previously mentioned I had a thing for her i accepted and we ended up cuddling and she mentioned how I was the only one out of our friend group that actually cared for her and mentioned how I liked her before. We proceeded to have sex and she told me that if I caught feelings I'm out which fucked with me for a bit but I was seeing other girls and she was seeing other guys plus we're friends so I was chill with it. The next few days that we chilled with all our friends she would always mess with me by pulling my belt or hugging me and I'd hold her or play with her, we'd even gotten as far as kissing randomly and when we spent the night at one of the boys house she cuddled me. We would have sex one more time before recently (as in 2 days ago). I arrived at her house to spend the night and she told me howd shed been talking to a guy recently which hurt me a bit but it was okay. The odd part is how she was texting the guy the entire time and offered for us to still cuddle and she clang onto me still but as the night progressed she stopped doing so and so did I cause it seemed wrong. The whole night consisted of me and her basically on our phones with little talk her and there but nothing major. She even mentioned how soft my hands were at one point during this night when we snuggled. I'm just conflicted on what I should do and if I should mention that I still have feelings for her because the guy shes talking to is an asshole and I know this because some of my other girl friends dated him. I dont want to lose her as a friend and I want to try and get with her but whatever happens happens I guess, I just need some advice
EDIT: I told her how I felt and she isnt talking to the guy anymore and basically repeatedly apologized for hurting me and how she doesnt want to be anyone and I asked if me and her were going to stay friends and all she said was "yeah" and nothing more. She told me how everyone always treats her like shit which hurt me more. I'm even more lost but it felt good to let that off my chest.
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