Quick backstory, we both go to the same university and have been together for almost 9 months. The first few months (6) were absolutely amazing. We were always happy, enjoyed each others company, and made things work even though we both have very busy schedules. But around that time things started getting worse, we started arguing all the time over the dumbest of things. And I've even tried initiating a break up a few times. I love her so much, but I tried breaking up with her last week and didn't do it. I read some of her texts with her friends and they all told her to break up, my friends have said the same thing but to a lesser extent. We talked after and decided to work on things. What should I do? Her friends were adamant about it