About 5 months ago my wife had a complete change of personality. She says she didn't enjoy sex anymore ave it felt like work. I tried to make it more special for her but ended up getting told a week later to "Don't fucking touch me" I was hurt and went downstairs to sleep. I asked what I did wrong the next day and she said that she didn't remember anything from the night before. I was hurt asked for an apology. She says she won't apologize for something she didn't remember. And it's been a steady decline since then. Her entire attitude about everything has changed she is a stay at home mom to both of our children and takes care of most of the house work. Then about 3 months ago she said she would no longer going to do my laundry or dishes. I work 10 hour days so this sucks but I did it. It got bad enough we went to counseling we went for a few sessions and it seemed to progressively get worse. At the last session on Monday she said that she doesn't love me and doesn't think she ever did. She wants a separation but wants to cohabitate. She says she needs time to work on herself and not be in a relationship right now. We have been together since shortly after high school. I've had two nervous breakdowns at work and had to come home. I am watching my life fall apart around me and I don't know what too do. Some people are saying she is having a midlife crisis and to tough it out. Others are saying it's over and to move on. I just don't understand how we could go from being such great friends to her not wanting me around her anymore. I now live with a roommate who I don't recognize and who wants nothing to do with me. I don't know what to do.