Me and my partner have been going through a hard patch lately. I believe she is going through a midlife crisis. I have been doing lots of reading on chaos kids and how bad their midlife crises can be. We are going to counseling and I thought we were finally doing good but now she is telling me that she realises she will never be the person she was again and feels we should separate. She is bipolar and we have two children 2m and 5f. I just don't know what too do any more. I've had 2 breakdowns were I have had to leave work. Just looking for advise did I keep fighting to make it work or just try and let her go because it is killing me to keep giving and receiving no love in return. I really miss hugs.