Hello, I’ll try and make this short.

My girlfriend has a friend who is one of her exes good friends. He recently got out of a long term relationship because he was cheating on his significant other for a long time.

This guy starts texting my girlfriend. She is a cam girl. He keeps bringing it up (brought it up like 5 times in a day of texting) and she just didn’t respond to that stuff. But he also asked her seemingly innocuous stuff like what kind of snacks she ate. She told him she had a good day he said “good that’s all I care about.”

She texted him “hold” meaning pause the conversation. And said “hold the train” meaning hold the train of texts. He said “I should no game” which I think means he should know how to text behind someone’s back. Overall I’m very upset at my girlfriend. Idk if she’s playing dumb or really didn’t see anything wrong.

So I saw a bunch of texts from this guy light up on her lock screen and I asked what they were talking about. She said nothing and offered to let me read it. I did read it and that’s when I saw he kept bringing up camming and being what I consider flirtatious. I got upset, she didn’t to think anything was wrong with it. We talked about it for a while and didn’t really come to a conclusion.

So, basically I’ve got some guy who just cheated on his girlfriend a bunch now texting my girlfriend and idk what to do. Tomorrow I’m going to tell her this feels like it crossed a boundary and she can’t be in contact with him. Do I have the right to do that?