I (21m) recently started talking with a lady (18f) after she friended me on FB. She's a great girl; she's attractive, also disabled by a similar disease as myself, we both have similar childhood traumas, she's involved in the community, she's crazy nice. I should like her, but I don't care. I don't jump for my phone when she texts like I have with past sweeties. I still remember the favorite psychologist of the girl that broke up with me nearly three years ago, but I don't even remember this new girl's sisters' name which we had a conversation about last night.

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There's no reason why I shouldn't want to be with her. On paper, we should marry. BUT...

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What do you suggest; should I muscle a relationship into existence or "friendzone" her or something else?

Thanks in advance for all answers!