Hello :⁾

I [17M] got into a relationship with a girl that I really like [18F], very recently. I thought it was going really well until my insecurities started to creep up on me.

Basically the things I'm insecure about, e.g. Attractiveness, athleticism, intelligence, etc. Are being amplified? Not sure if it's the right word, but basically being amplified by the girl I am dating. This by itself wouldn't be that bad, however, one of her close friends [18M] is simply better in every aspect, and they're frequently on call until around 4am.

Am unsure why someone would date down when there is someone who is a better match, and it's causing my insecurities to eat away at me.

Have spoken to her about the insecurities, but not the jealousy? I think is what I'm feeling, and she replied with something along the lines of discussing it in person. This is kinda hard because of my garbage uni schedule and work times, but I really want to make this work.

Has anyone been in a similar situation, or have any good advice?

Much appreciated