I am finding it difficult to communicate with my gf at the moment. When she is having a bad day like today she gets really distant & cold. She makes communicating with her so so difficult. What she will do is respond to my texts really bluntly which is totally out of character. She will reply with just "no", "yes", "nothing" etc etc. She will do this so I ask her what's wrong. She will say nothing at first & then If I ask again she will real off the problems. Today its someone ignoring her, she is finding it hard to find work & some minor cash problems with saving. I will try my best to be supportive & offer my advice but she will just keep replying with these short replies to which it is impossible for me to reply to. If I don't reply she will accuse me of ignoring her or not caring. I have told her that the way she is behaving towards me is really getting to me to which she just says that she cant help feeling a little down. I said of cause you cant but I feel your taking it out on me & making it hard for me to communicate with you.

How do I deal with these episodes as its getting really draining. I feel as if I am letting her down because my support doesn't seem to matter & I feel I cant do anything right. I cannot possibly reply to a nonsensical one word text but then if I don't I will be in the bad books. She is putting me in a very hard situation & it's actually making me feel down.