I'm(m/18) honestly confused about the state of my relationship, I don't know if it's going down the drain, if I'm overreacting, or if it's even worth it.

I've been dating my gf(f/19) for about six months now, and I'm still not sure if I'm just a booty call or her boyfriend. I've met her family and she said they think I'm great, but whenever I ask to go to her house while they're there she'll make up an excuse as to why I can't,

When we make plans to hang out she'll space them, giving a half assed apology and disappear for hours before continuing the conversation.

Whenever we are together, I'm the one that does all the talking, while she watches tv and plays her game absentmindedly nodding to what I say, and we only really talk when I bring up something she's interested in, when I go back to things I'm interested in she'll go back to not listening. In public guys will end up flirting with her, and having her sit on their laps, but if I try that with her in public, she'll look away and say, "Please stop" which just makes me feel like I'm either ugly, undesirable, or just a secret booty call she would never let her friends see her with.

I'm normally the one to always make plans, because I'm the one that always ends up texting first, she'll always say maybe or if there's no one at her house, and she hardly ever follows through, though she lives in my neighborhood just a couple houses away, and she's always home alone, I know because I always see her only family members go to work and or school during my morning run. And I know she's not busy because she's told me her schedule everyday, which consists of, Waking up, Watching Tv, Eating breakfast, chores grandma comes home, and then watching more tv, until she goes to sleep.

I'll ask her if she's doing anything, and she'll always tell me she's watching something or playing something, and as soon as I ask if she can hang out she says she can't.

And on the occasions that she doesn't use her family as an excuse, she'll tell me she overslept, this wouldn't be so bad, if it hadn't been 3 weeks since we last hung out. Because apparently the only time I can see her is between 6 and 11, giving me 5 optimal hours to hang out with her. Which is hard for me because I'm used to sleeping in, but as soon as I got used to waking up early for her, she started getting up later, making her wake up at 8 or 9 or 10 and at that point she'll tell me it's too late to hang out and that she's sorry.

She tells me how happy she is that I'm in her life, but that's getting harder and harder to believe when she won't even try to see me, I ask her out on dates, she says that's weird, I ask her to see movies saying I'll pay, she says she only sees movies with her family, I say when can just drive or walk around the neighborhood, she says she doesn't want to leave her house. I've considered what if she's not allowed to have people or guys over, but then I remembered that she let her friends over, a guy and a girl so I know it's not that, and her grandma(she lives with her grandma) literally told me that she's happy to see her spending time with someone. So she doesn't have a problem either.

I'd like for this to work, but she won't even meet me half way. She's not interested in anything I have to say unless I talk about sex, games, or comic book heroes, so texting usually goes like, 6AM Me "Goodmorning" 2 hours later, Her "Sorry, just woke up" Me "It's okay, what are you up to?" 2 more hours later, Her "Nothing just watching tv, you?" Me "Pretty much same now, we should hang out soon." Her "We should." Me "How about tomorrow?" 12am Her "I'm bored" and at that point I'm just too annoyed to text back and I'll just leave it be.

In my head I'm thinking she might be doing this just to get me to break up with her, or maybe she's genuinely just not waking up, she's definitely not as interested as she was when I was talking about handcuffs and Loki.

But each day it's becoming less and less worth it, I'll be honest and say the only reason I haven't ended it yet is because I'm going to the airforce soon and I'm hoping I can at least get laid a few more times before I'm in basic. Which is terrible to say but at this point there's no real reason to keep up the act of not being upset with her. That is my own fault, but it's not like I haven't brought it up, I'll tell her it's been a while since we last hung out, and she'll say, "Yea, I miss it." And yet she never does anything about it. She won't even come to my house either.

I know she must be bored, because I definitely am, and I know if she wasn't so insecure she'd break up with me for any of the guys that flirt with her, who by the way are all hotter than me, and that constant flirting isn't helping my self esteem considering my last two relationships I got cheated on.

I guess I wouldn't be so annoyed if I was just a bootycall, or if I knew what we even were. But as it stands I know it's a total waste of time, I know I'm just whining about something I can fix but I needed to vent. But mainly I could use any opinions on what I should do