as the title says, I am sexually frustrated. I’m at this point now where masturbating doesn’t help and just makes me feel like crap, and I don’t like the idea of having to masturbate more than sex.

It’s hard for us to have sex(to no fault of her own) because she still lives with her parents, has no car and has a daughter. She gets every other weekend free of her daughter and there’s guaranteed sex atleast every 2 weeks. I have hinted at her plenty of times that we need more sex, and she has a few times implied we could later in the day, either directly or indirectly to much disappoint it doesn’t happen, and massive blue balls ensue. And more times where we’ve been alone where we could have pulled a quickie..

Now it IS hard for us to have sex regularly as I said before, she has a daughter lives with her parents and doesn’t have a car for now.. but I have also suggested they both can sleep at my house, or possibly have a family member watch her for a ‘date night’ but she had an excuse for both suggestions, which I have to admit I have respect for her with taking care of her daughter. But alas I’m still frustrated.

I’m at the point where just being around her I get blue balls, and doing normal couple things with her is frustrating, my mood changes and it’s all I think about. This is coming from somebody who needs it a couple times a day... I have to be honest when I first started dating her I didn’t think it would be this bad and I kind of regret making it official with her since it’s hard for us to just have 1 on 1 Time. But I love her, so it’s tough... we does plan on moving in with me sometimes in June as we will both be doing summer classes at the same college.

So with that all said.. do I just toughen it out and wait until then in hopes things will change once we’re moved in together? I honestly feel like an asshole that it’s such a big deal to me.