I am a 22 year old female, and according to Reddit and the entire world, my husband (23) is supposed to have the sex drive of a rabbit. Yet we never have sex. It ridiculous how I have to go through all types of hoops to get him to make love to me... I don't think he fully understands how I feel and what his rejections are doing to my self esteem.

To answer any wondering thoughts, according to him, I am the hottest girl on the planet. I don't see it but he does. We have been married for 3 years, and I think the honey moon was the last time we did it like bunnies. I am very kinky, so I am literally up for anything, all He has to do is ask. I have lost 20 lbs and have updated my wardrobe and self confidence. And yes we have talked about this. NOTHING WORKS!

We have sex at most 1 time a month and in this month alone it has barely been once... And when we do, he ends up climaxing before me and is not up to help me out..

I just want to know what else I can do? Or just know if there is anyone else who can relate to my situation.. All I can say is I feel like I should have married my finger, since its a better lover than my husband.

TL;DR- 22 yo female, married, only has sex once a month (if she's lucky). In need of more sex from her husband, help her out!