My husband 25m suggested we separate after months, maybe years of having issues. I 26f dont want thi...

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My husband 25m suggested we separate after months, maybe years of having issues. I 26f dont want this and need help getting through this and letting him go

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we've been together 9 years married 3 years. his career has taken off while mine is just starting. he feels that he grew up and i didn't-we started dating at 16. he hasnt been treating me well so obviously i dont want that but i want a healthy marriage and a chance to get there. we are in therapy but im scared im going to lose him. i keep fantasizing that hell call me up and tell me how much he loves me and will keep fighting for us and work on this together. i keep checking fb. everytime my phone lights up my heart stops thinking its him. how do i get through this? whats my best chance to get him back? and be healthy?

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