I (20M) am having thought of my friend (20F) while being with my girlfriend (21F)

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Hi, I've been in a 4 year relationship with my girlfriend and I love her so much. We hardly argue and we love spending time with each other ect.

However for the past month I keep getting thoughts of a close friend I have I university and can't help fantasising about her. I know how shitty that sounds and I know I'm a horrible person but I don't know what to do. I won't do anything with my friend as I'm not that person but I don't know how to make the thoughts stop.

I want to live the rest of my life with my girlfriend and am planning on marrying her one day, I'm really close with her family as she if mine. But I feel so guilty at the moment and don't know what to do.

Could anybody give me some advise?

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