Yo I got this issue with me and my gf met on discord buncha years ago on a server . And now that trump locked the border and shit She lives in Canada . And I'm in the states . Either now need to sacrifice my family to be with her or wait it out for few years get my job and shit situated and hopefully border laws are little better . But same time I don't wanna waste all these years and future for nothing so far . Like F**** idk how to handle it I'm soposed to start job core in few months or less than that . And gonna like a year or so away from home and my mom stepdad and few other family members that live around here. But is worth family or my potential wife more important After I get my career figured out Like if I pick one corse I have to get to shiped out to Kentucky Wich like 6 states south from where I'm at But I wanan be happy with who I'm with same time