tw mention of domestic violence lmao

i’ve been w my bf for about half a year now and he opened up to me about how his ex girlfriend stabbed him. i lowkey wanted to ask follow up questions but i didn’t wanna pry bc surely he might not wanna talk about a clearly traumatic situation.

i eventually found her social media after stalking my bfs social media, as one does bc the facebook status that says “this person is in a relationship w this person” is still up to this day (he barely goes on facebook just like all ppl our age lmao)

ik this makes me look like a bad person for obsessing over a not-so-good person, but i mostly find myself comparing myself to his ex, mostly just looks-wise, but still not a good look nonetheless. if yall know the olivia rodrigo song that goes “im so obsessed w ur ex” basically that describes this situation to a t.

now, ik the obvious answer is to just not look at her social medias as well as other ppl who know her that have pics w her, but is there any advice yall can give me to stop obsessing over her that im missing? thanks in advance!!