My crush just told me that he has severe case of Narcolepsy, and I know that means strong fatigue all the time but I’m going to be honest I have no idea how to tackle it.

Because I want to consider him on all accounts but how do I set boundaries so he can sleep peacefully and we can have our time together?

Because combined together: Having a fatigue disorder, 11 hour work shifts, practicing for sports-

I don’t know how hes going to prioritize a relationship and…I don’t know where to start with bringing it up.

Just two days ago we made our intent clear for a date (He has been energetic about date ideas for awhile but had been calling them a hangout so I straight up said that 1) He could choose the day and 2) asked him if he wanted this to be a date or hangout.

He then asked me what I wanted and I told him directly I wanted to date him. He said he would love for this to be a date.)

But now? I’m worried about entrusting him with the time. I’ve been clearing up my schedule since and mentioning how I’m free- and yes I know that I’m coming off as I’m not giving him time, im trying to give him options since I know he overthinks and we had talked about ideas before but no actually…anything.

I’m scared of us just being an idea, never fulfilled.

What boundaries do I even start with??