I (f24) got into a relationship with my classmate (m27) after only knowing him for 2 weeks and now idk what to do.

We had both signed up for this winter ecology course where you go out to a national park and do classroom and field studies. There were around 14 of us and by the 2nd day we all seemed to click really well and already felt like friends. Over the 2 weeks the guy and I started talking and poking fun and just having a good time.

I was doing the nightly readings with him and I accidently took his book, over that night I left some doodles amd my phone number just saying he was cool and would love to talk more if possible and if not that's okay.

He texted me in the morning and said he found what I did cute. Some days pass and we talk and are spending more focused time together. He smokes weed but doesn't drink and so I joined him on some of his nighly drives.

The first night we came back to town I was a little buzzed from a drink and a gummy and I stayed the night with 2 other guys and him watching YouTube. The two guys fell asleep and the guy and I held hands, kissed, and touched each other for the first time. He cuddled me till we fell asleep.

The next night we went on a date to a pizza place and went for one of his drives. I didn't join and he hardly smoked what he had. But that night we both had our first time with someone.

The next we both spent alone and the night after that we just cuddled and laid next to each other kissing sometimes on the couch in the common area. It was our last night together. From there he drove me home ‐ a 2 hour drive where he asked me to be his gf. We had already talked a lot about our pasts and I expressed concern about my family and what they would think. He said he felt the same. We both seem to be anomalies in each others love life. Him never really having a gf, and me falling for boys and not men.

But this guy, I have never felt so instantly comfortable with a guy. My 3 previous relationship I knew the guy for a min of 2 years before we dated. But then I never dated anyone more then 5 months over a period of 6 years. He already knows when I am overthinking, and things that I am thinking.

I told him that I didn't want our couple of nights together to define our relationship- he said that he didn't either, but that he just wanted to hold me and get to know me better and be a man that my family doesn't have to worry about.

And from that I understand his perspective. His family is much different then mine, actually polar opposites. His seem very liberal and keen to talk about taboo stuff and mine are very conservative and hush about taboo. We are so different in a million of ways.

But what makes me scared js how I am not scared with him - I want to be with him, what makes me scared is how my family will react to him. So far they met a tiny bit when he dropped me off and then came the next morning to give me tbe hat and stuffy he got for me while we were doing our course.

We both live woth family at this time while going to school and working and so I think I have very poorly hidden how much this guy means to me to my mom. She is not a dummy and I can see I think she knows he means a lot to me.

We also live 2 hours away from each other. But idk what to do. I have never been in a relationship this fast. And in a way I am sad and happy to be living 2 hours away. It gives us time to just talk but then... I'm sad because I don't get to be near him.

I truly don't know what to do and I feel like I'm going crazy because of how much calm I feel when I'm around him. He always made sure I was okay.

I'm worried this is just an infatuation, but then again I have never felt as calm and not worried about somone as I have him. Please any advice is helpful just I need a sounding bourd.