Okay, I have a gf with 0 sex drive. I like sex very much tbh, I’m trying to look decent and for sure I don’t smell, but having sex with my gf is the same as having sex with a doll, she puts 0 effort into it, never initiate it, which makes me feel like she’s doing me a favour sleeping with me and I don’t want that. I like going down on girls in general because I care to give them pleasure and I receive no head at all (I’m sure I don’t smell), she’s just laying there. I really don’t want to tell her that, because she’s doing what she likes (which is nothing) and I don’t want to force her. Btw she has strong sweat smell down there and I’m sensitive to smells so going down on her is also no go, we talked about this and she tried to change her body wash and bathroom routine, it didn’t help and she stopped trying. So our interaction in bed is boring, just me caressing her for some time with my hands and putting my dick inside until it’s over. As a result we’re dating for a 1 year, living together and hadn’t had sex for two months, because for me it’s better to take care of myself and she, as I mentioned, never initiate sex. Sorry if my post was too chaotic and sorry for everything else, English isn’t my first language. Any advice?

One more clarification. If you think I don’t satisfy her in bed, that’s not the case. She cums very easily (which is nice) and usually comes few times in one sitting