Me and my gf have been dating for 6 months, and I’m very smitten w her, and I think she is too. But the other day we were talking, and I expressed how I felt like I hadn’t gotten to see her much recently cause she came back from a trip and has been busy.

When I did she kind of started going off about how she’s been in lots of codependent relationships, and that she’s doing the best she can and that she has other priorities, and then I started feeling bad, and asked her if I’m her biggest priority, and she said no, which made me sad cause she is my biggest priority.

She then said it’s unhealthy to have ur partner be your biggest priority, and that I need to be ok without her if it ever comes to that. And that makes me feel really sad, and I told her, and I got her to say I’m her biggest priority, cause I got really sad, but I don’t know if she meant it.

I’ve never been in a Relationship longer than this, and I think I’ve been pretty reasonable w asking for things, and it hurt to get that response when I just asked if we could maybe have a me and her day soon.

So is she being kind of emotionally closed off? Or am I being clingy?