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I've been living with my girlfriend for a couple months now, and she's been consistently going out dancing during this time. It's usually at least four to six times a week, 6 or 7 pm till midnight-2am. I haven't really struggled with it until recently. I think in the last couple weeks she's been going more often, and has been staying later. I'm getting really tired of going to bed alone. I wake up for work at 5 am and get home around 4:30 pm, and every time she comes home the dog barks and wakes me up, and I struggle falling asleep without her anyways. So my sleep schedule has been thoroughly ruined and I feel like my mental health is suffering for it as well. I don't think I have a problem with the dancing. I trust her, and seeing her Latin dance with other guys can be a bit strange from a visceral standpoint, but I know it's just her hobby and she doesn't mean anything by it. But when I only get to see her for a couple hours after work I start to feel like I'm less and less a priority to her and I can't help but feel like she would rather be out with her friends than be home. It feels selfish of me and I don't want to tell her I don't want her going out as much and staying out too late. I have talked to her about it, but she isn't offering up any solutions and hasn't changed the situation at all. I have gone out with her several times, and I like her friends and dancing is fine, but it's not really my thing and even if it was, I can't being staying out so late with my jobs. Any ideas how I could move forward?
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