We have been in a relationship for a year and eight months, she has been saying that she wants me to be more dominant and masculine and I've read up on these things but no matter what I do or say it's never good enough for her. I try and give her compliments that are from the bottom of my heart and she says that I'm just scratching the surface and I'm not even trying. She calls me a kicked puppy and a pussy when it takes me a little while to come up with something to say after she's been interrupting me. No matter what I say or what I do it's never good enough for her. I truly love this girl but she's threatened to break up with me at least I would say ten times now and I've explained to her that I'm trying to be the best partner I possibly can be for her and it's gonna take some time for me to fix things. She then blows up when I slip up on something small and blows it way out of proportion and we then argue for hours on end. I really want to stay with this girl but I'm tired of the toxicity. Thanks for coming to my ted talk.