So me (26F) and my BF (30M) have known each other for 5 months when we decided to make it official about 2 weeks ago. We often fight about things like politics and morals, but they're just arguments or debates that always just end with us agreeing that our values won't really align perfectly. We do have the same objectives, such that we always think of doing the least harm possible to the world around us but we seem to have different ways on going about that. Will this be an issue? We don't think it's a dealbreaker, so far. Exes, infidelity, and anything sex related is a non-issue, we already talked about that and we trust each other on that one. We also have the same views on religion, money, family and kids, individuality so we have no problem with those. We've already lived and travelled together.

What are some topics that couples often fight about that may ultimately lead to a breakup? I want to address them as early as possible in the relationship because we're already talking about marriage. We like each other a lot but i don't wanna get married and then find out that we aren't compatible after all.

This is my first relationship and i'm scared of the vulnerability of being in one. The both of us had pretty much already accepted and were happy with the fact that we'll be alone for the rest of our lives due to how finicky we are with what we want in a relationship, but then we found each other and we were very compatible so we made it official between us.

Am i overthinking? Perfect relationships don't exist right? Will everything be okay?