I (33F) think I'm done with my marriage. My husband (30M) has in the past cheated, he constantly accuses me of there being someone else (there never is), he is an alcoholic, and just treated me like a rug to walk on. I have expressed my feelings and that i want him to seek help for all his mental issues. He says he will and never does. Right now he's on an up, feeling good, happy. I'm waiting for the shit to hit the fan again. I don't want to be in this marriage anymore. I don't know how to tell him i want out and he needs to leave. We have no kids together, I own our house. We only share a checking account, I just got my own. But i just cant bring myself to say the words that will change everything "I don't want to be married anymore", he's going to get angry and cry and talk me out of it like he has in the past. How do I do this when he's on an up? I know this up won't last it never does, its a cycle that will come crashing down again real soon.