I had my first time with a guy and he doesn’t exactly treat me right, but i’ve been obsessed with him for about 10 months. He’ll ask to hang out and be late or just fuck smth up for me. I’ve never been in a relationship and I wouldn’t want one with him since I can’t trust him. I’m the one that called us fwb, but since then he’d ask if i’d ever date him and told me his future dream was to have a family. He’s american and i’m not, he’s a conservative and a lot of our views don’t align. He’s against abortion but has had sex with me raw every time even tho I brought up condoms a few times. We were on the topic of abortion and I said if i ever accidentally got pregnant by him I would abort it bc im too young and I don’t want a child. And he was surprised and told me I couldn’t do that. And that I would keep his child. He’s in the military so I asked why he would even want one and he said “you’re going to be looking after them most of the time anyway”. Even after I told him I wasn’t on BC, the last time I saw him he didn’t pull out properly. I honestly think a part of him wants me to get pregnant which is so strange to me since he doesn’t treat me right. Why would he say or want that? Edit: I’m not asking for opinions on condoms and abortions, i’m asking why he started wanting a kid with me and why he would say that.