She does eventually initiate if the stars allign but i feel like i used to be able to say i was in the mood and actually have a chance of it going somewhere. Also recently, ive been making her cum, then she falls asleep and i dont, so i get frustrated as fuck which she doesn't understand is because she doesn't have to wait. As soon as shes in the mood she snaps her fingers and im between her legs, but If im in the mood, i have to wait until she comes to me, talking about making me shoot a massive load only to cum before me and say she's too tired to finish me off, and shes said before that "why is it either you cum or we both cum"? And thats a good point, but recently shes been cumming exclusively, leaving me blueballed all night and dying for it for the rest of the week, even though i offer to and have finished her off after i came. Idk if im just being dramatic and should man up about it and appreciate what i have.