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I (27m) have been talking to this beautiful girl (24m) for a few months now. In a recent discussion, she said I come across as chill and laid off. How do I tell her that's not the case?
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So I've been fortunate enough to have this girl in my life for the past few months. We've been talking almost every day and have gone on platonic dates and stuff.

I'm not bragging, but whatever is going on between us started out thanks to her efforts and hers alone. Had she not persevered, we wouldn't have been where we are today. And I'm always going to be grateful for it.

I've never taken her casually and never will. And I do occasionally tell her whatever I feel.

Whenever we meet, I always look out for her comfort.

I have a busy schedule, but I do make it a point to text her every now and then and reply to her texts.

I've never made her feel restricted because of things on my end and never will.

I understand I've been too available for her but that's because I genuinely like her. I have nothing to hide and no games to play.

But she says, and I quote, "there is no sincerity, no reciprocity. I'm chill and laid back because a girl is talking to me and flirting with me and initiating things and doing everything."

I understand I'm not vocal about a lot of things, and I'm not romantic enough because of the fear of doing something stupid and creeping her out.

If it were up to me, I'd like to meet her everyday, buy her gifts, adore her like a princess, go on walks with her, and do some not so demure things with her. But the fear of doing something wrong in the process scares me.

I want to communicate all this to her. So please help this poor soul out.

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