We’ve been together for a few months now and we live about an hour and half apart. She doesn’t do anything wrong or anything negative at all but she is incredibly needy and has some severe abandonment issues. She’s had some of the worst experiences with guys in the past literally leaving her stranded on planned trips and just being abhorrent individuals to her but I’m kind of starting to think that I can’t handle it like I thought I could. Like I said she has does nothing wrong which makes this even harder for me to navigate.

Almost every day I will get at least a handful of texts that ask if I’m still there even after 5-10 minutes of not responding and she constantly implies I’m going to leave her or that she’s worried she’s doing something wrong that is going to make me not like her anymore. She’s beautiful and funny and we enjoy some of the same hobbies but with her being so dependent it’s really starting to make me feel like it’s not gong to work. I feel awful even thinking this way but I just don’t know if I can handle that kind of relationship. I have my own issues I’m working though but I feel like it’s putting too much on me for her to be so dependent on me. She will start crying during phone calls or when we’re playing games if we even have the smallest disagreement on anything because she thinks she’s screwing something up. She also made it very clear around a month in that she already loves me and I don’t fall fast at all. It takes me quite some time to really get to know somebody and fall for them. How do I proceed? I really need help on how to figure this out :(