Hi there. I (29F) have a full time career that keeps me busy. I recently started seeing a man (M31) who also has a full time career that keeps him busy. He's on more of a M-F schedule and my days off are totally random.

We do sleep overs and but we have yet to spend a full 24 hours together. Typically we spend less than 5 hours together about once a week. Example, we'll do dinner/drinks or stay in and watch and go to bed, then he or me leaves in the am. We also don’t text very much during the week.

Would you say, for someone in their 30's, this is pretty regular? We've only been seeing each other for like 3 months. I say is this normal for the 30's because nowadays, I don't want a crazy active social life. I prefer my time at home and I'm working more to achieve certain goals, with more responsibilities. Also I'm sleepy af.

Also, side note. At what point is that supposed to ramp up?