Heyy okay so I'm stuck in a pickle here. My partner(29) and I (26) have been rather codependent I think me more so on them than the other way around. They're alot more empathetic and caring and understanding and well I just don't seem to get anything right. I feel like for a long time I just dumped all my problems on them and they played therapist for me in a sense which I feel alot of guilt and shame for. As a result I have resorted to only talking to them about things that upset me regarding our relationship and keeping things that I'm upset about otherwise to myself. They brought up that it's making them feel like we aren't that close anymore cause I'm not sharing what I'm going through with them. Like I said I can't seem to get it right. I don't want to be dependent on them at all especially emotionally. I should be able to handle my shit alone atleast that's what I think or the perception I have. Any advice on what I can do to make this situation "healthier"? I love them alot and just wanna make this work.