Does he like ME or my art?
Okay here's the deal, I'm a poet I write poetry on my insta acc, and share art and poetry,mI have a lit magazine, a podcast, an art acc and so on.
so recently I had been doing a mass following to many people. this resulted in on of them being a friend of a mutual. That guy asked my mutual who that was when in a gathering with their friends, and ,y mutual told them all about the stuff I do, this caught the attention of a third friend of theirs, who likes all artistic stuff and immediately went and followed my poetry account
his follow was sudden and I liked his anime pfp, he suddenly started liking ALL my stories, I saw he was a mutual, and decided to follow back
Immediately thought he was a fun person, from his cosplaying and digital art he was posting.
Anyway, on an insta story I asked for feedback on my recent poems, he wrote a feedback about a po m about pirates, I replied with a story saying how it was inspired hy one piece my fav anime and stuff
and this is when convos started, he replied to that and we began talking.
We had SO much in common, we were in the same uni, diff majors ( Im med and he is Cs) we liked cats,nature, physics, animes and similar specific animes, have similar opinions, love art and poetry, love deep talks, etc etc
I am confused rn, it had been almost two weeks since I had known him. When he texted me, it was in , his midterms week, but even though it was clear he was busy, he wouldn't miss a day without texting me with literally ANYTHING, like even smth random. he'd send memes or reels relating to cats or doctors ( me), he would like ALL my stories ( now it is MOST not all), he would reply to any story that could be replied to or he has a thought on. he tells me about his achievements, takes pictures if trees he saw as beautiful or his uni saying i wanna burn this place ( its a common joke in our uni) etc etc
he would always initiate convos even if the convo ended he would start a new one.
even when I was having a depressive episode, he sent me something to remind me how I shown incredible strength as he had seen through my podcast( which he LOVED and it made him imagine exactly the type of dramatic stuff I did when recording my episode on having nature as friends and stuff) and that I said that I wanted to be light to people but I needed that light to reach to me too
when I posted a story ( leave smth nice or go) during that episode, he was the only one that replied (i think) with a picture of cats near his house
we are both ENTP, he once sent me an old arabic "flirting" poetry line commenting on how it's his favourite, I replied with MYnfav, he just commented on how flirting in the past is PEAK. I said I imagined it was written to me bla bla bla he made a joke about me being a hopless romantic.
what confuses me now, is that I cannot tell if he is being nice or JUST loving my art and enjoying the convos since maybe he like found someone who likes this stuff, or is he continuing to talk to me daily, telling me stuff he did or poems he likes etc etc because he genuinely enjoys my presence. I'm not saying he has a thing, it's been like less that or almost two weeks now so I'm not expecting anything
but I'm starting to like him, and I don't want to be heartbroken again. my last crush was an interesting guy too, even though he would ghost all his friends online alot, when he did text back, we would have loooonggg convos asbout deep stuff, but when I confessed he said that I was just the only one who liked/understood this stuff, so he talked to me abt them.
I do NOT want this to happen again
i cannot tell anything, not even from his tone. I mean sometimes he seems reserved and to the point, sometimes nervous and over apologetic or thankful, or when he REALLY likes smth like a poem of mine or when we talk abt a good anime or abt uni he gets all excited and CAPS. I just want to know wheter to expect or not.
help me plz
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