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I made a post a few days ago about my situation, which you can refer back to if you’d really like. I talked to him about how badly things have been effecting me and how I’m not sure if I can continue doing this with him. He opened up to me about his debt, saying he did know about it before we dated and moved here together, he was still paying it off then, and he got a letter in the mail saying he still owed 17k. Eventually the government got unhappy and started taking it off his pay. Mind you I asked about things he owes, and he never once mentioned this, not once told me he owes the government slot of money and is working on paying them off. Otherwise I would of withheld moving in and getting a place and let this 35 year old guy get his shit together. He was living with his dad when we first started dating so I just don’t understand how he hadn’t managed to pay that off. I’m not angry, I feel like I should be because he lied and has dragged me down when I even told him I want to build towards a future, (saving up for a house, making good memories, eventually kids) and that all feels so impossible to even have with him right now. I feel a lot of hurt towards the situation, it could of all been avoided if he would of spoke to me. Maybe I should he angry, maybe I should be raging that this has happened, but I’m just sad, and have no idea how to leave him in such a shit situation, that yes he did himself, but I can’t just leave him here to not even be able to afford anything. I can’t stay, but I feel like I can’t leave
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