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I donāt know what to call it but I donāt understand how Iām hurting him. Iām quite clumsy, and thatās not an excuse but I literally am. Iāll step on his foot on accident. āYour always hurting me ā Forget the grab the door and it hits him. āYour always hurting meā Grab him arm too hard if I trip. āYour always hurting meā If I bump into him without him expecting it. āYour always hurting meā If heās hogging the bed Iāll push over his leg and he wakes up saying Iām hurting him. Iām not aggressively pushing or pulling his body over so I can lay down but he says Iām hurting him. I should note heās not diagnosed autistic but if you spend the day with him he is. Sounds, touch, light, make him not freak out but get overstimulated. Tonight we stayed up a little late. Around 1:30 he said itās time for bed, I had already taken three naps today (im pregnant if thatās important?) so I wasnāt tired. He said okay and went to bed, at 2:48 I went to get in bed and like usual he was stretched on to my side and had stolen one of my pillows. I nudged his leg over and hip so I could attempt to lay down. He moans like heās mad. I lay down heās hogging the blanket. (I canāt even cover myself) so I pull on it, he shoots up and says why are you always hurting me! I asked him what I was doing generally confused. He says Iām always hurting him. Iām currently laying on the couch crying because I donāt understand how Iām hurting him, and donāt know if Iām actually hurting him or heās being dramatic. We havenāt really talked about it before, but every time he says that it hurts my feelings because itās making me feel like Iām an abusive person when I know Iām not. Am I Intentionally hurting him with out knowing ?
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