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Bf M27 says I F21 hurt him constantly. Am I actually hurting him?
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I donā€™t know what to call it but I donā€™t understand how Iā€™m hurting him. Iā€™m quite clumsy, and thatā€™s not an excuse but I literally am. Iā€™ll step on his foot on accident. ā€œYour always hurting me ā€œ Forget the grab the door and it hits him. ā€œYour always hurting meā€ Grab him arm too hard if I trip. ā€œYour always hurting meā€ If I bump into him without him expecting it. ā€œYour always hurting meā€ If heā€™s hogging the bed Iā€™ll push over his leg and he wakes up saying Iā€™m hurting him. Iā€™m not aggressively pushing or pulling his body over so I can lay down but he says Iā€™m hurting him. I should note heā€™s not diagnosed autistic but if you spend the day with him he is. Sounds, touch, light, make him not freak out but get overstimulated. Tonight we stayed up a little late. Around 1:30 he said itā€™s time for bed, I had already taken three naps today (im pregnant if thatā€™s important?) so I wasnā€™t tired. He said okay and went to bed, at 2:48 I went to get in bed and like usual he was stretched on to my side and had stolen one of my pillows. I nudged his leg over and hip so I could attempt to lay down. He moans like heā€™s mad. I lay down heā€™s hogging the blanket. (I canā€™t even cover myself) so I pull on it, he shoots up and says why are you always hurting me! I asked him what I was doing generally confused. He says Iā€™m always hurting him. Iā€™m currently laying on the couch crying because I donā€™t understand how Iā€™m hurting him, and donā€™t know if Iā€™m actually hurting him or heā€™s being dramatic. We havenā€™t really talked about it before, but every time he says that it hurts my feelings because itā€™s making me feel like Iā€™m an abusive person when I know Iā€™m not. Am I Intentionally hurting him with out knowing ?

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