My m41 GF F37 is moved to an other city and is distancing herself, how to handle the situation?

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My m41 GF F37 is moved to an other city and is distancing herself, how to handle the situation?

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geeduz_926 is a male

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Hello,

I'm in a really confusing and painful situation.

My girlfriend (37,f) and I (41,m)had big plans (relationship of 3 years with ups and downs), but now she's moved away and it feels like she's left me behind.

I'm turning to you for advice. My girlfriend and I are facing a difficult situation. She got a job offer in a different city and wanted me to move there with her.

However, she's now moved there alone with her kids and is distancing herself, saying she's worried about my happiness moving with her.

Whenever I try to talk to her about it, she shuts down and withdraws for a few days.

I've found a job in the new city, but I can't make any decisions until I understand what's happening with our relationship.

tldr : Gf doesn’t want me to move with her after sugestion it on her own. And now blocks me out.

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