We’ve been together 7 months, and recently everything I do she has the opposite view on, it’s got to the point it could be any opinion I have big or small and she will go against it, it’s becoming draining as all I want is her to have my back and agree with me on some things. I just feel like she’s constantly being negative and having digs at me. I’ve tried bringing this up to her and she dismisses it and of course just gets combative and goes against what I’m saying and how I feel.

She brings a negative attitude a lot of the times, saying that she thinks we are too different and that she doesn’t think we will work out. Yet earlier that day she’ll be telling me she loves me and how handsome I am and that she’s lucky to be with me and that she doesn’t want to be with anyone else. It’s confusing.

I’ll often go quiet at times when she gets angry because I feel like it’s pointless talking to her in that state as she will just disagree with anything I say and say some nasty stuff towards me. Then when I get quiet she gets even angrier because I’m not responding to her to the point she will physically throw items around the room (not at me).

She’s just told me recently that she’s pregnant to which point I’m over the moon as I’ve always wanted kids, of course it’s her decision whether she keeps the baby or not. I’ve told her to take time to make her decision and only if she’s ready to and it will be a big responsibility.

Of course I’ve already made my decision and want to keep it but I told her to not let that influence her as I want a partner who is also ready to have children. She was then very happy and told me she wants to keep it. Then later that night she switched and when we got into an argument she said that she wouldn’t want to have a child with someone like me, which hurt me a lot.

I don’t really know where to go from here, something in the back of my head is telling me I’m being manipulated, she’s quite needy with things and expects me to stop what I’m doing and always be there for her. She’ll often always question me if I don’t respond back quick enough and be annoyed at me. I feel so confused right now, honestly I’m unhappy but there’s also a lot of good times and she does make me happy also. I’m really not sure where to go from here? Any advice Would be much appreciated.