As the title says, lately it's been on my mind that I'm not sure this is the relationship for me anymore. We've been together for 7 months, and are currently living together, both of our names on the lease. The reason it's been on my mind so heavy lately is well so much. First off I suppose is he(35m) is now in 15k of debt with the government and their taking it off a good chunk of his pay every two weeks, and in result of that, l've been hitting the minuses in my bank a lot more. I pick up on buying weed when we need, cheapest I can because I can't afford it now. And as well as picking up on groceries when we need, and we got a new fridge and stove out in my name and he can't split payments with me on that at the moment. As well as all my other bills and things I need for myself. It's all a lot for me, and lately has been really hard on my state of mind. I don't ever do anything, I stay home all the time, I can't even go and visit my mom and my sister anymore like I used to, they live an hour away and once again, costs more money that I can't afford to spend. And then there's the fact that he can be very overbearing? Lately for some reason he's obsessed with my ass? And like wants me to shit on him, he'll go in detail about how he wants to spread it all over himself, and all over me, he wants me to poop on his appendage. But it's like constant, he talk about is so often, I have no idea if it's even a joke anymore? He doesn't want me dressing the way I want to. If he doesn't like it, he wants me to change into something else. I'm just very stuck. I don't know if these feelings are just because I'm in a depressive state right now, or if this relationship is not the one for me. He's otherwise a very great guy, cooks for me all the time, picks up, takes initiative, is very sweet to me, overall a way l'm not used to being treated.