Okay so for additional context my boyfriend (24m) and I (24f) are having a game night. It’s me, my 2 cousins, his friend & his friends gf. We’re all smoking and drinking. I was sitting on the couch with one of my cousins (18f) when I noticed my fiance and my other cousin (22f) were gone. I waited for a moment (5mins) before going to the bathroom. When I opened the door my cousin was on the toilet, pants down. She closed the door in my face & before I could turn away my partner came out.

I’m not sure what to think. I asked him how it would look if I was in the bathroom with his friend with my pants down. He didn’t give me a straight answer he said she was drunk and he was leaving but I’m like … I waited 5 mins you didn’t come out. He still won’t give me a straight answer but I’m not sure what to think because I didn’t see anything. I haven’t asked my cousin yet. Everyone is still drunk and high so I don’t think they will take me serious or try to gas light me or make me think I’m crazy. Since then he’s been extremely touchy and attentive. I told him to stop calling my name, touching me and talking to me because it was overstimulating but he didn’t get that and kept it up and I had to excuse myself because it made me feel icky and sick. I’m laying in the bedroom now. Feeling relieved to be away.

UPDATE So I asked them both about it and they both profusely said that they weren’t doing anything. I can’t accuse them of something I didn’t see but i let them know that that’s not okay and NOTHING in the world was so important they had to say it in the bathroom and they should’ve never been so comfortable she pulled her pants down in front of you. I said since they have no boundaries I will have to create boundaries for them. They will never be allowed in the same room again. That’s it.