I don't know what to do. She is currently sitting next to me on the coach, and is crying about how I want to play video games with my friends.

We are currently watching Saving Private Ryan, great movie. I paused it so I can search up the Tiger Tanks used in WW2. My best friend called me, was obviously hammered and really wants to play some games. I said I'm down, it's a Saturday night, what's the problem?

Well, my gf has a huge problem that I play video games. She is currently saying that I don't love her and I only care about my friends.

I'm so tired of this. I am an adult, It is a Saturday night, I am allowed to play video games with my friends right? My gf and I have lived together for over a year, I don't have any friends in our new city, and neither does she. We both just work and go to school all day. It's hard for us both to not have any friends, so that's why I like to play video games with my friends from home.

I really don't see a big problem. She has been wanting to spend more time with me, but recently she has been so busy with work and school, and I'm currently going through a little depression, just on life and shit.

I explained that to her today, she says she understands and can tell I've been a little depressed even though I don't feel like it.

I don't know what to do anymore. She constantly tells me how I don't love her because I don't want to fall asleep with her ( which is untrue) we fall asleep together all the time, she usually falls asleep earlier and I'm a night owl. Some nights, like most 20ish year old kids are going to want to play video games with their friends, yes even if they played last night.

She is so emotional all the time I just dont understand her. We have had a super rocky relationship to be completely honest.

She thinks that I only play video games at night to get away from her when she gets home which is a complete lie. I play video games at night because that's when my friends play. She wants my attention all the time, she wants me to only play video games during the day. She takes my id so I don't go out drinking with my coworkers, she controls so much of my life and I literally don't know how to get any of that back.

She also is jealous of my friends. She literally just told me she hates competing for my competition. Like seriously? I spend every single day with you, I literally live with you, and I can't hangout with my friends on discord for a couple hours. I don't even get to see them once a month and they are my only friends.

If she doesn't want to do something for why reason, I am so open to understanding and doing what she wants. But whenever I want to do something, it always has to involve her, it can never be me wanting to do something because I want to, it's still because of her. And if I did do something for me, I would still have to fight her every step of the way to get there.

I hate arguing, I hate fighting, I hate confrontation, I just want to be left alone, have a chill life. But she always wants confrontation, she always has something against what I say or believe, and I'm truly tired of it. I don't know if it is something she can change, but she truly is an awesome person and girlfriend.

I need help y'all.