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Me and my gf have been together for about 5 years. In the first two years I was at home every other weekend due to my military service so at the limited days we were together we did it once or twice hence why it didn't bother me.
After the service and due to the fact we live really close - we see each other every day, and we sleep together every day. But now we only have sex once every week or two (or three). Every time I try to initiate, it doesn't work and now only she initiates.
She also doesn't like the act of sex so much and rarely thinks about it. I don't think it's because she's not attracted to me, I'm pretty sure she just doesn't have big interest in sex in general.
We were thinking about going to some sort of counseling together and wanted to know if you have any advice to give.
I also wanted to know what you can call a normal and healthy sex life as we both never had a relationship before.
Thank you.
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