Hi All,

Would love to get different perspectives on this so here goes!

I (32M) recently matched with a (32F) and we seemed to hit it off in the DMs as we're both seeking a meaningful, long-term relationship. I asked if we could converse over the phone or in-person and she shared her no.

I've been genuinely, both, busy and under the weather recently so didn't reach out for 3 or so days, however since dropped her a short message at the beginning of this week to say I'd love for us to catch-up over a call and I'm usually free in the evenings or weekends; please let me know what suits. Essentially, being mindful that most people have an evening routing post work e.g. errands, gym etc. so rather leave a message of this nature as opposed to calling out the blue.

However, it's been 3 or so days since and I've not heard back. I'm a little bemused as to what the hesitancy on her side maybe. Honestly, if she ain't feeling it no more then that's not an issue for me and I'm happy to move on. I'd rather not double text; just a little bewildered as to what could be holding her back and take this as a learning opportunity.

Thanks.